A resource centre for mothers has started a platform allowing them to vent their emotions and resolve conflicts without being judged.

Sharing problems like the aggressive behaviour of their children and their screen dependence are some of the problems that mothers share.

The platform, called Parent Cafe, organises sessions at cafes, malls or even parks where mothers can meet to navigate their problems, drawing support from each other.

“When they are out of that situation it helps them distance themselves and gives them a clarity of thought as to how they can navigate the situation,” said Saba Islam, the founder of Happy Mommy Place, a resource centre that has started the Parent Cafe initiative.

“Often, just sharing their problems makes them feel better. At times people might feel uncomfortable sharing their problems in front of strangers, but there are occasions when the fact that they are strangers makes it easy for them to open up. There are no strings attached, unlike when they are with family members,” said Islam.

The sessions can be attended by mothers of all ages — from younger ones whose children are in pre-primary classes to those whose sons and daughters are teenagers.

“Over-dependence on screen is a problem that cuts across all ages and that leads to multiple problems on the home front,” said Islam.

Mothers can identify with the problems, which helps them realise they are not the only ones facing them.

“There are working mothers and stay-at-home mothers, who have similar problems,” said Islam.

A working mother feels guilty for not being able to set aside enough time for their children, she said. “A homemaker mother is low on confidence because she lacks financial independence and that comes across in her approach,” said Islam.

“When we interact with other members we understand that they are going through the same problems despite being in different situations,” said a homemaker.

The Parent Cafe also recognises mothers for their commitment and dedication at home, which has helped them earn more respect from their children.

“There are teenagers who have shown respect to their mothers after they have been recognised by us for their efforts or their commitment to their duties,” said Islam.